It's crazy but...

R@H · 03-31-2008, 02:10 PM

2 or 3 weeks ago, I went a weekend to Brighton because I promised one of my friends to take him out as he was desperate for a man but... I met someone.. not much words were exchanged just smiles.. I had my chances but I was drunk and paranoid so messed up. N ow 3 weeks later...its still spinning in my head why I didnt say more or try more. It's come to the point that in may I'm flying back to Brighton(Okay I'm not that desperate I'm also going to London to view a room and because of a job offer) to have a second chance... now I dont believe in love at first sight...must be lust..Aargh what the hell is this feeling!

edawg99 · 03-31-2008, 07:11 PM

Well I hope everything works out for you and good luck in London.

darko. · 03-31-2008, 07:55 PM

it seems like everyone in europe is always travelleing to otehr places in europe

i know its small, but is it really that common? must be pretty cool

R@H · 04-02-2008, 10:30 AM

Everyone always travels in europe because its so easy, you dont need a passport in the EU just your id card. And when you can get cheap deals, why not?

CaseyM · 04-02-2008, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by R@H

Aargh what the hell is this feeling!

It's the "what if" feeling. "What if I would have done this?" "What if I would have said something instead of nothing?"

The boy must have been really cute to stay in your mind for so long.

I bet you probably remember the color of his eyes.

**Plastic Flute** · 04-02-2008, 02:49 PM

Its called lust.

CaseyM · 04-02-2008, 02:55 PM

yah, lust is also involved.

**MissyO** · 04-02-2008, 03:12 PM

Maybe you were married in a past life.

R@H · 04-02-2008, 04:21 PM

its not lust ok.

CaseyM · 04-02-2008, 04:35 PM

Ok, so maybe lust isn't involved, if you say so. But there's a reason for everything. Why are you so interested in a guy you met once? Was it something he said? Or something you wished you would have done? Only you know what that feeling is and the purpose behind it.

Moshe.. · 04-10-2008, 08:50 PM

Oh you just need to get out more. You meet a person once, didn’t even manage to sleep together, and then start acting like a stalker. I feel sorry for him because he might not remember who you are. It must be 99% lust! You're just really frustrated. YOu should be a bit extroverted - if u meet a hundred new people, you’ll forget all about it. And yeah the feeling of love, even if it’s just 1%, is a really nice emotion! It’s the feeling of your own potential being projected onto other people. I want to write about plato now but I’ll control myself.

R@H · 04-11-2008, 12:03 AM

I went out in central london every saturday night and I need to get out more? Out of millions of people in the city, there was someone who just...well nevermind I'm not even gonna try and explain

**Jocasta** · 04-11-2008, 03:29 AM

Out of millions of people there's probably more than just one who just... Unless you believe in a soul-mate, that's there's one true love out there?

Blackmask · 04-11-2008, 04:48 AM

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I met someone.. not much words were exchanged just smiles.. I had my chances but I was drunk and paranoid so messed up.

oh oh, I know....alcohol induced memories?

CaseyM · 04-11-2008, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Blackmask

oh oh, I know....alcohol induced memories?

I don't believe that was very nice.

**Ophelia** · 04-11-2008, 10:59 AM

I get it, and I say go for it. Life is short ya know...especially with Death hanging out over here.

**Plastic Flute** · 04-11-2008, 07:13 PM

I thought alcohol made you forget.

Moshe.. · 04-12-2008, 11:29 AM

That probably just reflects the quality of people who go out in london on sat night. That's like the first rule of london, only ultra unfashionable working people go out on the weekend, especially in the centre. But anyway good luck with the person. Please don't tell him you've been obsessing! that could be really awkward. Pretend you're not obsessed .

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Out of millions of people there's probably more than just one who just... Unless you believe in a soul-mate, that's there's one true love out there?

Ok yeah since we're now talking about plato anyway.

**Jocasta** · 04-12-2008, 11:33 AM

But don't you think all working people are ultra unfashionable? (Lazy student!!)

**Ophelia** · 04-12-2008, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Moshe..

Pretend you're not obsessed .

Best.Romantic.Advice.Ever.

03-31-2008, 02:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	It's crazy but... 2 or 3 weeks ago, I went a weekend to Brighton because I promised one of my friends to take him out as he was desperate for a man but... I met someone.. not much words were exchanged just smiles.. I had my chances but I was drunk and paranoid so messed up. N ow 3 weeks later...its still spinning in my head why I didnt say more or try more. It's come to the point that in may I'm flying back to Brighton(Okay I'm not that desperate I'm also going to London to view a room and because of a job offer) to have a second chance... now I dont believe in love at first sight...must be lust..Aargh what the hell is this feeling!

03-31-2008, 07:11 PM	#2 (permalink)
edawg99 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 8,395 My Profile	Well I hope everything works out for you and good luck in London.

03-31-2008, 07:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
darko. Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: shlums 'o shaolin Posts: 2,087	it seems like everyone in europe is always travelleing to otehr places in europe i know its small, but is it really that common? must be pretty cool

04-02-2008, 10:30 AM	#4 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	Everyone always travels in europe because its so easy, you dont need a passport in the EU just your id card. And when you can get cheap deals, why not?

04-02-2008, 02:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
Plastic Flute ICHiBAN HoOT Join Date: May 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,861 My Profile	Its called lust.

04-02-2008, 02:55 PM	#7 (permalink)
CaseyM Ain't you the lucky one? Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Dublin, Ireland Posts: 134 My Profile	yah, lust is also involved.

04-02-2008, 03:12 PM	#8 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,111 My Profile	Maybe you were married in a past life.

04-02-2008, 04:21 PM	#9 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	its not lust ok.

04-02-2008, 04:35 PM	#10 (permalink)
CaseyM Ain't you the lucky one? Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Dublin, Ireland Posts: 134 My Profile	Ok, so maybe lust isn't involved, if you say so. But there's a reason for everything. Why are you so interested in a guy you met once? Was it something he said? Or something you wished you would have done? Only you know what that feeling is and the purpose behind it.

04-10-2008, 08:50 PM	#11 (permalink)
Moshe.. il dolce far niente Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: hampstead Posts: 971 My Profile	Oh you just need to get out more. You meet a person once, didn’t even manage to sleep together, and then start acting like a stalker. I feel sorry for him because he might not remember who you are. It must be 99% lust! You're just really frustrated. YOu should be a bit extroverted - if u meet a hundred new people, you’ll forget all about it. And yeah the feeling of love, even if it’s just 1%, is a really nice emotion! It’s the feeling of your own potential being projected onto other people. I want to write about plato now but I’ll control myself.

04-11-2008, 12:03 AM	#12 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	I went out in central london every saturday night and I need to get out more? Out of millions of people in the city, there was someone who just...well nevermind I'm not even gonna try and explain

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04-11-2008, 03:29 AM	#13 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Shaftesbury Avenue Posts: 17,807 My Profile	Out of millions of people there's probably more than just one who just... Unless you believe in a soul-mate, that's there's one true love out there?

04-11-2008, 10:59 AM	#16 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 7,018 My Profile	I get it, and I say go for it. Life is short ya know...especially with Death hanging out over here.

04-11-2008, 07:13 PM	#17 (permalink)
Plastic Flute ICHiBAN HoOT Join Date: May 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,861 My Profile	I thought alcohol made you forget.

04-12-2008, 11:33 AM	#19 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Shaftesbury Avenue Posts: 17,807 My Profile	But don't you think all working people are ultra unfashionable? (Lazy student!!)