Most Attractive Personality Traits In The Male Species

**MissyO** · 03-30-2008, 12:11 AM

What personality traits do you like your men to have? I was just thinking about how attractive enthusiasm is when blended with a healthy dose of cynicism.

What about you guys?

Oh, oh, and intelligence is key, too.

Captain Beefheart · 03-30-2008, 12:35 AM

Bohemian, free-spirit, independent, authentic.funny and softly textured like Greek appetizer morsel, open minded, cynical but not one step removed from the honest-to-god and unreedeemable prickishness of Dennis Miller. I hate any and all outward signs of fake happiness and appreciation. A chick with a psychology degree off the back of a comic book/manga that makes Sigmund Freud look like Mamie Eisenhower smart is always welcomed tho.

Tangential but combine elements of your personality, Hamelin's, Op and Jocasta and that would be a 10.

R@H · 03-30-2008, 01:32 AM

Fun loving, open minded, enjoying life

**Ophelia** · 03-30-2008, 10:54 AM

Thanks Beefy.

Someone open minded, relaxed, kind, adventerous and fun loving. A very good sense of humor is a requirement.

Jocasta · 03-30-2008, 11:34 AM

Honest, compassionate, fair minded, generous, hard working, loyal, witty, articulate... not in the order particularly.

edawg99 · 03-31-2008, 12:36 PM

Girls expect to much out of guys.

Jocasta · 03-31-2008, 01:09 PM

Yes, from most men that's true.

R@H · 03-31-2008, 02:00 PM

I know guys are dissapointing thats why sometimes a few of us swing both ways ;)

darko. · 03-31-2008, 04:30 PM

number 1 on the list for all women is complete indifference to what any woman likes in a man

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Originally Posted by Jocasta

Honest, compassionate, fair minded, generous, hard working, loyal, witty, articulate... not in the order particularly.

Was "hard working" always on that list, or did you come to appreciate it as you got older?

Jocasta · 03-31-2008, 05:20 PM

I never actually had a list or even thought about it before but maybe hard working becomes a more important trait with responsibility (rather than age).

Regardless of how disappointing men can be, I still like them and their company... they're just so darn cute.

R@H · 03-31-2008, 06:22 PM

They are cute....and evil.

the problem with men is they never live up to the promise

**Plastic Flute** · 03-31-2008, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain Beefheart

Bohemian, free-spirit, independent, authentic.funny and softly textured like Greek appetizer morsel, open minded, cynical but not one step removed from the honest-to-god and unreedeemable prickishness of Dennis Miller. I hate any and all outward signs of fake happiness and appreciation. A chick with a psychology degree off the back of a comic book/manga that makes Sigmund Freud look like Mamie Eisenhower smart is always welcomed tho.

Tangential but combine elements of your personality, Hamelin's, Op and Jocasta and that would be a 10.

Awww TY

darko. · 03-31-2008, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by R@H

They are cute....and evil.

the problem with men is they never live up to the promise

If by "promise" you mean "ridiculous fantasy you've cooked up in your mind despite all the available evidence suggesting men are not psychic or superhuman" then yes I agree

what is this promise?? who has promised you something?

**Plastic Flute** · 03-31-2008, 07:03 PM

^ you must have dumb azz

**Cat** · 04-15-2008, 09:02 PM

A sense of humor...OMG. And open-mindedness. Sincerity. Being articulate is a plus. Kindness! I'm not really into badboys.

**MissyO** · 04-15-2008, 09:23 PM

^ CAAAATTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!

Great to see you around girly.

**Cat** · 04-15-2008, 09:36 PM

Aww! Gosh, it's nice to finally be around. I've missed wasting away in front of the computer.

Captain Beefheart · 04-15-2008, 09:40 PM

Great men are about as common as the rarest precious flower in the world. That's uncommon and also a dichotomy.

**Cat** · 04-16-2008, 04:13 PM

And where exactly do we find these flowers, Beefy? I want to pluck one.

Jocasta · 04-16-2008, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Cat

And where exactly do we find these flowers, Beefy? I want to pluck one.

Typo?!

03-30-2008, 12:11 AM	#1 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,047 My Profile	Most Attractive Personality Traits In The Male Species What personality traits do you like your men to have? I was just thinking about how attractive enthusiasm is when blended with a healthy dose of cynicism. What about you guys? Oh, oh, and intelligence is key, too.

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Captain Beefheart Mu nótahu Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: In a West End town, a dead end world Posts: 3,573 My Profile	Bohemian, free-spirit, independent, authentic.funny and softly textured like Greek appetizer morsel, open minded, cynical but not one step removed from the honest-to-god and unreedeemable prickishness of Dennis Miller. I hate any and all outward signs of fake happiness and appreciation. A chick with a psychology degree off the back of a comic book/manga that makes Sigmund Freud look like Mamie Eisenhower smart is always welcomed tho. Tangential but combine elements of your personality, Hamelin's, Op and Jocasta and that would be a 10. Last edited by Captain Beefheart : 03-30-2008 at 12:44 AM.

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Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 17,341 My Profile	I never actually had a list or even thought about it before but maybe hard working becomes a more important trait with responsibility (rather than age). Regardless of how disappointing men can be, I still like them and their company... they're just so darn cute. Last edited by Jocasta : 03-31-2008 at 05:21 PM.

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Cat Bloomin' crazy Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Norway Posts: 1,957 My Profile	A sense of humor...OMG. And open-mindedness. Sincerity. Being articulate is a plus. Kindness! I'm not really into badboys. Last edited by Cat : 04-15-2008 at 09:16 PM.

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Cat Bloomin' crazy Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Norway Posts: 1,957 My Profile	Aww! Gosh, it's nice to finally be around. I've missed wasting away in front of the computer. Last edited by Cat : 04-15-2008 at 09:37 PM.

03-30-2008, 01:32 AM	#3 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,844 My Profile	Fun loving, open minded, enjoying life

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Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 6,893 My Profile	Thanks Beefy. Someone open minded, relaxed, kind, adventerous and fun loving. A very good sense of humor is a requirement.

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Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 17,341 My Profile	Honest, compassionate, fair minded, generous, hard working, loyal, witty, articulate... not in the order particularly.

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edawg99 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 8,420 My Profile	Girls expect to much out of guys.

03-31-2008, 01:09 PM	#7 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 17,341 My Profile	Yes, from most men that's true.

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R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,844 My Profile	I know guys are dissapointing thats why sometimes a few of us swing both ways ;)

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R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,844 My Profile	They are cute....and evil. the problem with men is they never live up to the promise

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Plastic Flute ICHiBAN HoOT Join Date: May 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,334 My Profile	^ you must have dumb azz

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MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,047 My Profile	^ CAAAATTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!! Great to see you around girly.

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Captain Beefheart Mu nótahu Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: In a West End town, a dead end world Posts: 3,573 My Profile	Great men are about as common as the rarest precious flower in the world. That's uncommon and also a dichotomy. Last edited by Captain Beefheart : 04-15-2008 at 09:41 PM.

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Cat Bloomin' crazy Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Norway Posts: 1,957 My Profile	And where exactly do we find these flowers, Beefy? I want to pluck one. Last edited by Cat : 04-16-2008 at 04:13 PM.