How Do You Stop Loving Someone?

**MissyO** · 03-24-2008, 07:13 AM

Anyone? Even if they're out of your life and its definitely for the best, why the f*ck do you still want them? ITS F*CKING INSANE.

Come on, somebody must have the answer.

**Jocasta** · 03-24-2008, 07:18 AM

I don't know, only time, I think. I'd like to know how to keep loving someone.

**MissyO** · 03-24-2008, 07:21 AM

^ Bummer. Aren't we a pair?

**Jocasta** · 03-24-2008, 07:25 AM

Ah true, the only conclusion must be, you can't control love, who or why you love someone, unlike other emotions which can usually be controlled to some extent.

**MissyO** · 03-24-2008, 07:30 AM

Indeed. And yet it burns, burns, burns.

I hope the human emotional heart evolves sometime soon.

**Plastic Flute** · 03-24-2008, 09:00 AM

When something beter comes along you forget. Eventually that person will get on your nerves.

R@H · 03-24-2008, 11:25 AM

You don't stop loving them it takes time. But what you can do is put them out of ur head. Do fun things, meet new people( go clubbing !! ) youll meet new people. I broke up with someone in november and im finally over it, i went to brighton and saw the most beautiful person after 12 drinks and realised theres just more people out there

**Jocasta** · 03-24-2008, 11:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plastic Flute

When something beter comes along you forget. Eventually that person will get on your nerves.

Ha, good one.

darko. · 03-24-2008, 04:20 PM

CaseyM · 03-25-2008, 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by R@H

You don't stop loving them

That's right, you don't. Your feelings adjust according to how your life is going. In time, it does evolve. And why would you want to forget? It's all experience you learn from, and grow from. Soon, you'll meet other people, someone who will capture your heart in a way you never thought possible.

Think about the good times, but never look back. Keep going forward.

**Jocasta** · 03-25-2008, 05:42 PM

Quote:

That's right, you don't.

I disagree, you can stop loving someone.... it's naive to say otherwise... just wait.

R@H · 03-25-2008, 07:12 PM

you dont know that just because your older and had more experiences doesnt mean that we will all stop loving our first loves

**Ophelia** · 03-25-2008, 07:30 PM

She's not saying that, she's just saying it's possible.

R@H · 03-25-2008, 07:37 PM

okaay, chill, sit back, no harm there

**Ophelia** · 03-25-2008, 07:42 PM

Oh - I didn't mean it to sound like that. sorry.

R@H · 03-25-2008, 07:56 PM

sorry

CaseyM · 03-25-2008, 07:59 PM

we're all sorry.

Now, lets rock out.

**Jocasta** · 03-26-2008, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Ophelia

She's not saying that, she's just saying it's possible.

That's right, I didn't mean you will always fall out of love. I still believe you can love someone forever, just that it's not always like that.
And yes, I'm older than you (not older than everyone here) but I'm a great believer in age doesn't always bring wisdom.

**Plastic Flute** · 03-26-2008, 02:05 PM

Missy you have been thru a lot in a short with job changes and loss. I feel this most recent "loss" hit you uber hard because its like a last staw. Try an look at it all. And give your pain its just do. I bet you will find that this guy may be just 25%. and you are using it to deflect other issues. It seems to me that your post means NOT AGAIN !!!!! more so than ..I still lurrrrve

**MissyO** · 03-26-2008, 03:09 PM

^ You're probably right young Flute.
When'd you get all serious and sage????

Love ya!

03-24-2008, 07:13 AM	#1 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,111 My Profile	How Do You Stop Loving Someone? Anyone? Even if they're out of your life and its definitely for the best, why the fck do you still want them? ITS FCKING INSANE. Come on, somebody must have the answer.

03-26-2008, 02:05 PM	#19 (permalink)
Plastic Flute ICHiBAN HoOT Join Date: May 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,848 My Profile	Missy you have been thru a lot in a short with job changes and loss. I feel this most recent "loss" hit you uber hard because its like a last staw. Try an look at it all. And give your pain its just do. I bet you will find that this guy may be just 25%. and you are using it to deflect other issues. It seems to me that your post means NOT AGAIN !!!!! more so than ..I still lurrrrve Last edited by Plastic Flute : 03-26-2008 at 02:08 PM.

03-24-2008, 07:18 AM	#2 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Shaftesbury Avenue Posts: 17,805 My Profile	I don't know, only time, I think. I'd like to know how to keep loving someone.

03-24-2008, 07:21 AM	#3 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,111 My Profile	^ Bummer. Aren't we a pair?

03-24-2008, 07:25 AM	#4 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Shaftesbury Avenue Posts: 17,805 My Profile	Ah true, the only conclusion must be, you can't control love, who or why you love someone, unlike other emotions which can usually be controlled to some extent.

03-24-2008, 07:30 AM	#5 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,111 My Profile	Indeed. And yet it burns, burns, burns. I hope the human emotional heart evolves sometime soon.

03-24-2008, 09:00 AM	#6 (permalink)
Plastic Flute ICHiBAN HoOT Join Date: May 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,848 My Profile	When something beter comes along you forget. Eventually that person will get on your nerves.

03-24-2008, 11:25 AM	#7 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	You don't stop loving them it takes time. But what you can do is put them out of ur head. Do fun things, meet new people( go clubbing !! ) youll meet new people. I broke up with someone in november and im finally over it, i went to brighton and saw the most beautiful person after 12 drinks and realised theres just more people out there

03-24-2008, 04:20 PM	#9 (permalink)
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03-25-2008, 07:12 PM	#12 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	you dont know that just because your older and had more experiences doesnt mean that we will all stop loving our first loves

03-25-2008, 07:30 PM	#13 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 7,016 My Profile	She's not saying that, she's just saying it's possible.

03-25-2008, 07:37 PM	#14 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	okaay, chill, sit back, no harm there

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03-25-2008, 07:42 PM	#15 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 7,016 My Profile	Oh - I didn't mean it to sound like that. sorry.

03-25-2008, 07:56 PM	#16 (permalink)
R@H Lovin' it Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,868 My Profile	sorry

03-25-2008, 07:59 PM	#17 (permalink)
CaseyM Ain't you the lucky one? Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Dublin, Ireland Posts: 134 My Profile	we're all sorry. Now, lets rock out.

03-26-2008, 03:09 PM	#20 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,111 My Profile	^ You're probably right young Flute. When'd you get all serious and sage???? Love ya!