Casual sex

[Jocasta]

Your opinions are just that, not right or wrong, just one of many differing opinions.

[Ophelia]

^Gosh, if only more people could see it that way the world would be a nicer place to live.

[Plastic Flute]

Thats your opinion.

[Ophelia]

Yes it is. Is that your opinion of my opinion?

Lets fight p. Thats what this thread needs, a good cat fight.

[Plastic Flute]

I dont think we should report anyone anymore. I think Fix should just be able to write your name on the board. Like ... OPHELIA you would be #1. I would get jealous than try an showoff to get my name on the board. Phoenixs name of course would be right under mine.

[R@H]

its funny how this went from a random question about casual sex to adultry, killing mothers and childeren to a debate...anyways thanks beefheart for responding

[SilverSpoon]

Here's the thing...I agree wholeheartedly with darko, even though he got all piss-piss when I didn't bid on his eBay auction.

That being said, it doesn't make sense when the left earbud cord is shorter than the right.

[darko.]

Originally Posted by SilverSpoon

Here's the thing...I agree wholeheartedly with darko, even though he got all piss-piss when I didn't bid on his eBay auction.

That being said, it doesn't make sense when the left earbud cord is shorter than the right.

oh the ebay aution that i ended because the highest bid was 15 bucks?! SCREW YOU MY LOVE I LOVE YOU!

it doesnt make sense to use earbuds because they cut my ears

[Gumby]

Interesting topic.

I'm not really one for casual sex. Trying to explain to a girl why you're kicking her out before breakfast is too much work

As for cheating...it's wrong. Plain wrong. I wouldn't get involved with someone who had a history of cheating. Or lots of casual sex, for that matter.

[aloha]

I wouldn't get involved with someone who had a history of cheating. Or lots of casual sex, for that matter.

that´s also exactly what i think. I also wouldn´t take someone who has lot´s of casual sex, one-night stands and stuff like that or is known to cheat on his girlfriends

[Jocasta]

Originally Posted by aloha

that´s also exactly what i think. I also wouldn´t take someone who has lot´s of casual sex, one-night stands and stuff like that or is known to cheat on his girlfriends

Josh then!

[aloha]

well I don´t know what Josh is really doing in his free time, but he is out of that, I would take him no matter what

[Jocasta]

But if someone cheats, even just once, would you refuse to get involved with them, regardless of the circumstances?

[aloha]

I don´t know. well I would say it depends on teh circumstances why and how and stuff. and how the guy himself it.
some cheat on really regret others do it and are proud of that, and there is the difference

[edawg99]

Originally Posted by aloha

that´s also exactly what i think. I also wouldn´t take someone who has lot´s of casual sex, one-night stands and stuff like that or is known to cheat on his girlfriends

Yeah I agree a person like who is into casual sex or one nighters more is likely to cheat on you, that's why I don't deal with girls like that.

[Gumby]

Originally Posted by Jocasta

But if someone cheats, even just once, would you refuse to get involved with them, regardless of the circumstances?

Yes. I really don't see any circumstance where cheating is okay or justifiable.

I won't write them off as a horrible person, but they're not relationship material for me.

[darko.]

Originally Posted by Gumby

Yes. I really don't see any circumstance where cheating is okay or justifiable.

I won't write them off as a horrible person, but they're not relationship material for me.

I absolutely would write them off. Cheaters are deceitful disgusting animals who can't be trusted.

And if I were married, I'd wait until our children were grown (assuming we have children) and then leave and never speak to her if I can avoid it. THe relationship would be basically over. All we would be doing is teaching and taking care of our children. If she brought filth or disease into our home (not uncommon when you're a pig who screws losers you don't know...the rate of herpes in this country is sickening) I'd hurt her physically then take the children with me and she'd never see them again. This is how you deal with a deceitful liar. They deserve to be punished and you should punish them every way you can.

If you're a woman and your husband hurts you in such a vile, deceitful manner, you should try your best to ruin him. The "family courts" are on your side in this country and that is the one of the few times I believe you are justified in using it to your advantage.

If you're a man, just take the kids and flee. The courts hate you. Unless she's a junkie child molester, they won't let you have them. And even then, it's iffy.

I know you all think I'm ..whatever it is you think I dont really care but nothing makes me sicker than a damn liar. I HATE liars.

[Gumby]

I think cheating is the worst thing that someone can do in a relationship. To me, it's the highest level of disrespect possible. Some try to gain sympathy from it, saying they cheated because they weren't happy in their relationship, their bf/husband was inattentive or just a jerk, whatever. It doesn't matter. There's no excuse.

It's not really worth it in the long run. Your reputation takes a hit, it's harder to be trusted, and people who might want a relationship with you in the future will probably have second thoughts.

The female cheaters that I know personally (three) have lived to regret it. That happened before I met them, and while it did affect how I viewed them, I still see them as cool people overall. But I would never date them.

[aloha]

well, am I allowed to ask if you are male of female Gumby? cause I like your statements

[darko.]

let's have casual sex, aloha.

you too, PlasticFlute. you're bad so you'll get it bad, you jersey HOOWA