Spontaneous Cuddling

**MissyO** · 12-30-2007, 02:48 AM

Does anybody else out there have someone that this just happens with? I've got this friend at work and we have a bizarre habit of spontaneous cuddling. One minute things will be normal the next we'll be falling into one another's arms cuddling like orphans, complete with back rubbing.

Is this an example of me being deeply special, or do other people do this too?

Captain Beefheart · 12-30-2007, 03:45 AM

Beefy is soft and cuddly looking. He reminds me of a human version of the snuggle bear. He longs to leave your blankets and sheets smelling summer fresh and squeezably soft.

And my ex-girlfriend was either very affectionate or had a fetish for rib bones.

aloha · 12-30-2007, 07:15 AM

I don´t have someone like that, I wish I would.

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And my ex-girlfriend was either very affectionate or had a fetish for rib bones.

what about the rib bones?

12-30-2007, 09:10 AM

Look up "Fetish."

I never had anyone like that. The 'Elders' infused in me that human contact outside the family was a sin, especially from the opposite sex. Those crazy JW's.

You know what is really awkward? Hugging a dog, because although it may be wagging its tail but its not hugging you back ...

aloha · 12-30-2007, 09:40 AM

Well but dogs or animals in general give you love their whole life and don´t cheat on your

JenniferNoble · 12-30-2007, 11:13 AM

not true, my cat loves me when im the only one in the room, but as soon as theres a male in the room, she leaves me for him. what a ho

aloha · 12-30-2007, 11:33 AM

oh really? that´s funny
hmm I haven´t had with my horse at that time. he was like a dog and always wanted to go everywhere with me.
and he didn´t care about others. he got even jealous when i was just standing next to another horse

JenniferNoble · 12-30-2007, 11:36 AM

aaw that's sweet! for some reason animals dont really like me...maybe because i sometimes forget to feed them...

aloha · 12-30-2007, 12:15 PM

yeah, well animals always loved me somehow, well the horses and dogs I knew or meet cause I love to cuddle them.
and it´s cool when you call for your horse and it´s answering you and runs to you then.

**Bill5461** · 12-30-2007, 12:51 PM

Sexual harassment in this country has pretty much killed that kind of activity at work

darko. · 12-30-2007, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill5461

Sexual harassment in this country has pretty much killed that kind of activity at work

GOOD

work is for work not talking or looking at each other.

aloha · 12-30-2007, 01:30 PM

but it happens a lot at work places
where the boss forces his secretary to have sex with him if she wants to stay in that job or something

**MissyO** · 12-30-2007, 02:55 PM

Hmm...... We have sexual harassment laws here, too, but it hasn't killed this. There's a bloody big difference between an innocent cuddle and sexual harassment. Besides, everyone knows that they'd know they'd harassed me by the swift kick to the nuts I gave them long before I would file a report.

aloha · 12-30-2007, 03:09 PM

I also think it´s a big difference.
I guess it dpends on how the cuddle is meant or how it is placed

12-30-2007, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MissyO

Hmm...... We have sexual harassment laws here, too, but it hasn't killed this. There's a bloody big difference between an innocent cuddle and sexual harassment. Besides, everyone knows that they'd know they'd harassed me by the swift kick to the nuts I gave them long before I would file a report.

America is and always will be uptight about anything.

"Kick in the nuts"? And why would you assume it will only be a guy doing the sexual harassing? A woman can be sexually harassed by another woman, too.

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where the boss forces his secretary to have sex with him if she wants to stay in that job

I don't believe a woman in this day in age would ever let a man get away with such a thing, or a man be stupid enough to think he can get away with it... well, some are. And although they wouldn't deserve to have their nuts intact, it's best to hit them where it really hurts: their wallet, cuz it's also a blow to the head on their ego.

I feel like such a feminist today.

aloha · 12-30-2007, 05:00 PM

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I feel like such a feminist today.

hehehe, yes you are a real feminist LOL

**Jocasta** · 12-30-2007, 05:01 PM

Missy, it does sound like something and if you're both free and single then what's the problem, enjoy it, whether if leads to something more or not.

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And why would you assume it will only be a guy doing the sexual harassing? A woman can be sexually harassed by another woman, too.

I feel a darko moment coming on... stop being so boringly pc, Stealhty... how tedious.

darko. · 12-30-2007, 05:30 PM

sexual harrassment is ghorseshit. you dont have a right to a job. if i want you to blow me for a job then thats what i want. if im dumb enough to hire people based on their bj skills what the **** is it to anyone other than me and the idiots i hire? dont like it? quit.

amazing people think that the workplace is some sort of alternate universe where people dont want to **** each other.

ill sue women for looking attractive. how dare they give me a boner when im trying to work

women shouldnt be allowed to wear skirts or anything remotely revealing at work. cover your faces too. and if you have nice eyes, wear sunglasses. if i cant hit on you or say what i want, then you cant tempt me by dressing like a slut. if she wanted it, she wouldnt report me anyway so its a bogus horesecrap law based on the feelings of the person. thats psychotic.

JenniferNoble · 12-30-2007, 06:19 PM

in that case id say the same for the men. if we have to cover ourselves, so do you!

darko. · 12-30-2007, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by JenniferNoble

in that case id say the same for the men. if we have to cover ourselves, so do you!

or we could just fire all you worthless women

:gui tarist:

12-30-2007, 02:48 AM	#1 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,398 My Profile	Spontaneous Cuddling Does anybody else out there have someone that this just happens with? I've got this friend at work and we have a bizarre habit of spontaneous cuddling. One minute things will be normal the next we'll be falling into one another's arms cuddling like orphans, complete with back rubbing. Is this an example of me being deeply special, or do other people do this too?

12-30-2007, 03:45 AM	#2 (permalink)
Captain Beefheart Mu nótahu Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: In a West End town, a dead end world Posts: 4,314 My Profile	Beefy is soft and cuddly looking. He reminds me of a human version of the snuggle bear. He longs to leave your blankets and sheets smelling summer fresh and squeezably soft. And my ex-girlfriend was either very affectionate or had a fetish for rib bones.

12-30-2007, 09:10 AM	#4 (permalink)
Avis Phlox Guest Posts: n/a	Look up "Fetish." I never had anyone like that. The 'Elders' infused in me that human contact outside the family was a sin, especially from the opposite sex. Those crazy JW's. You know what is really awkward? Hugging a dog, because although it may be wagging its tail but its not hugging you back ...

12-30-2007, 09:40 AM	#5 (permalink)
aloha Loving Josh... Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: wherever Josh is. Posts: 22,923 My Profile	Well but dogs or animals in general give you love their whole life and don´t cheat on your

12-30-2007, 11:13 AM	#6 (permalink)
JenniferNoble Lovely Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 4,652 My Profile	not true, my cat loves me when im the only one in the room, but as soon as theres a male in the room, she leaves me for him. what a ho

12-30-2007, 11:33 AM	#7 (permalink)
aloha Loving Josh... Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: wherever Josh is. Posts: 22,923 My Profile	oh really? that´s funny hmm I haven´t had with my horse at that time. he was like a dog and always wanted to go everywhere with me. and he didn´t care about others. he got even jealous when i was just standing next to another horse

12-30-2007, 11:36 AM	#8 (permalink)
JenniferNoble Lovely Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 4,652 My Profile	aaw that's sweet! for some reason animals dont really like me...maybe because i sometimes forget to feed them...

12-30-2007, 12:15 PM	#9 (permalink)
aloha Loving Josh... Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: wherever Josh is. Posts: 22,923 My Profile	yeah, well animals always loved me somehow, well the horses and dogs I knew or meet cause I love to cuddle them. and it´s cool when you call for your horse and it´s answering you and runs to you then.

12-30-2007, 12:51 PM	#10 (permalink)
Bill5461 Scarlett Mod Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Upstate New York Posts: 16,356 My Profile	Sexual harassment in this country has pretty much killed that kind of activity at work

12-30-2007, 01:30 PM	#12 (permalink)
aloha Loving Josh... Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: wherever Josh is. Posts: 22,923 My Profile	but it happens a lot at work places where the boss forces his secretary to have sex with him if she wants to stay in that job or something

12-30-2007, 02:55 PM	#13 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,398 My Profile	Hmm...... We have sexual harassment laws here, too, but it hasn't killed this. There's a bloody big difference between an innocent cuddle and sexual harassment. Besides, everyone knows that they'd know they'd harassed me by the swift kick to the nuts I gave them long before I would file a report.

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12-30-2007, 03:09 PM	#14 (permalink)
aloha Loving Josh... Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: wherever Josh is. Posts: 22,923 My Profile	I also think it´s a big difference. I guess it dpends on how the cuddle is meant or how it is placed

12-30-2007, 05:30 PM	#18 (permalink)
darko. Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: shlums 'o shaolin Posts: 2,129	sexual harrassment is ghorseshit. you dont have a right to a job. if i want you to blow me for a job then thats what i want. if im dumb enough to hire people based on their bj skills what the ** is it to anyone other than me and the idiots i hire? dont like it? quit. amazing people think that the workplace is some sort of alternate universe where people dont want to ** each other. ill sue women for looking attractive. how dare they give me a boner when im trying to work women shouldnt be allowed to wear skirts or anything remotely revealing at work. cover your faces too. and if you have nice eyes, wear sunglasses. if i cant hit on you or say what i want, then you cant tempt me by dressing like a slut. if she wanted it, she wouldnt report me anyway so its a bogus horesecrap law based on the feelings of the person. thats psychotic.

12-30-2007, 06:19 PM	#19 (permalink)
JenniferNoble Lovely Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 4,652 My Profile	in that case id say the same for the men. if we have to cover ourselves, so do you!