Is love a mystery?

[Val]

I was talking to Missy a few days about this thread question. What do you think?

Is it a really mystery?
Não, it isn't but I don't know how to explain it!
Yesterday me and my girlfriend were in a nice relationship but today she doesn't like me anymore.
Is love a women problem?

So, what pops up in your mind now?

What people think is love is not love, but lust. (lujuria)

[aloha]

I didn´t know you have a girlfriend

[Samson The Cat]

Originally Posted by Val

Yesterday me and my girlfriend were in a nice relationship but today she doesn't like me anymore.

Too bad. That's already the second time since that happened, since you're here on FH.

Originally Posted by Val

Is love a women problem?

I'm afraid not. It can be quite a problem for guys as well.

Originally Posted by Val

So, what pops up in your mind now?

That I haven't "really" been in love for six years now. Only a few crushes since, which is basically the same, except it's not so intense and painful.

Originally Posted by Phönix

What people think is love is not love, but lust.

Cliché! Doesn't public opinion influence a definition of a word from time to time. The way you say it makes it sound as if the desire some people feel for others isn't "the real thing".

Originally Posted by monsieur pussycat

Cliché! Doesn't public opinion influence a definition of a word from time to time. The way you say it makes it sound as if the desire some people feel for others isn't "the real thing".

Like the word "cool" is made to define as something or someone popular. But it still about temperature. Or when something is "the sh!t", again, something or someone popular, but still means "feces".

You may be influencing the definition, doesn't make it true.

People stay in bad relationships because they think they're in love. If what I said were a cliché, perhaps people would get it in their heads what the difference is. Love is not a feeling, it's a state of mind. It's not what you feel in your pants.

[Samson The Cat]

People stay in bad relationships because they think they're in love.

Or because they are. My point was that it's not just love, when it works out.

[Val]

Originally Posted by aloha

I didn´t know you have a girlfriend

I don't have a girfriend, at least for now. But I have some candidates.
That was just an example of a possible situation.

[aloha]

oh nice, you have some candidats? do they know about that?

You're a player, Val. Know what that means? It means you play with women's emotions. First you have a gf, then you don't.

Don't play w/ women's hearts, Val.

[val]Do you understand?! Can you support this?![/val]

[Val]

But I was talking the truth.
I really don't have a girlfriend. I'm too ugly.

Originally Posted by Val

But I was talking the truth.
I really don't have a girlfriend. I'm too ugly.

oh here we go... then Aloha post saying "no you're not, Val"

get a room, you two.

[Plastic Flute]

^ LMAO