Late Night Loneliness

[MissyO]

Not just a woman thing, but whatever. It's 3 am here, and I'm struck by a major dose of the late night loneliness. You know that feeling when you just feel so damn alone and desolate? So totally unlovable and isolated you may as well be stuck in the desert. And there's no point to living. You'll never achieve all that you want to achieve, or even come close, and your wardrobe isn't good enough, and you realize you've forgotten to pay the bills, and how the hell will you get the money for them anyhow, and there's no glamour in life, and you'll always shoot yourself in the foot whenever something decent comes to you.

Its only a figment over your over-emotional imagination, of course, but shlt it feels real at 3 am, don't it?

[Moshe..]

Poor thing! I just try to stop thinking and smoke a few cigarettes, have a bath ect. It's only your own silly thoughts which make you unhappy.

Fry will cheer you up. About -6.30 half way through the vid he starts talking how he struggled with depression.

[Keri]

My advice is drink vodka (or whatever your spirit of choice is) until you get to the happy, dizzy state and then rush and crush the mattress before the depression kicks in.

And remember... your FH friends all over the world <3 you Missy, so no feelings of desolation please?

[Mónica]

You know that feeling when you just feel so damn alone and desolate?

Yes.

[Ophelia]

Take Keri's advice.

[darko.]

get a boyfriend

[Mónica]

Perfect!

[Blackmask]

I don't have those moments often but did hit that point a couple of months ago. After doing the getting depressingly drunk thing I took it as a wake up call to do something about it and change things. Some times it's those over emotional moments which help sort things out....at least they do for me.

[Mónica]

Getting drunk is not a solution for me. It's good only for a time-span (as long as you're drunk), but the next morning (or whenever), that 'being-lonely-feeling' might be still there...

[Blackmask]

If I get drunk when I'm already down it normally makes it worse. It's the hangover the next day that makes me stop and think how pathetic I was feeling and helps me realise if it's going to change I have to do something about it.

[MissyO]

Thank you all for your well wishes, and advice, no matter how misguided (Darko: you offering?!).

[darko.]

hell no. you're a cigarette smoking drunk

[MissyO]

^ Thank you kindly. Love you too!

You get used to the nicotine smell and taste when you kiss a smoking girl, darko.

Missy... baby... masturbate. It's God's gift to humans.

It's a normal and healthy expression of sexuality, and it has its health benefits. It helps you sleep, promotes the release of Endorphins into the brain: a hormone which affects both body and mind that "resembles opiates in their abilities to produce analgesia and a sense of well-being" in which it relaxes you just as a cup of white wine would relax your muscles, reduces your stress and it's believed to enhance the immune system.

There's absolutely nothing wrong about masturbation. It's been made to be something shameful, even sinful, for centuries. But we should know better than that. It's relieves stress, eases depression.

Overall, "sexual pleasure, including autoeroticism, is a source of physical, psychological, intellectual and spiritual well-being".

[Dark Dude]

I know how you feel, trust me. at least im lonely...and listening to Bob Dylan.

Love yourself.

[aloha]

You know that feeling when you just feel so damn alone and desolate? So totally unlovable and isolated you may as well be stuck in the desert.

absolutely

[Keri]

You know... If we set this thread to a trance track it could very well rival that Baz Luhrmann Sunscreen thing...

And on reflection, Phoenix's advice is by far the best in this thread

[MissyO]

^ Absolutely......

Drink vodka straight, smoke more, have a bath, masturbate, get a boyfriend......

And trust me on the Bob Dylan............

[Keri]

Now I just need you to up the mp3