The Tired and Emotional, I Need a Cuddle Thread

**MissyO** · 08-27-2007, 08:46 AM

Like the title said, this is a thread to let it out, tell us what's bugging you and then maybe get an emotional cuddle to cure it.

Alright, I'll start: I'm tired, my head is aching, I feel kinda "cold", I'm lonely as hell and every single fricken noise is making me jump out of my skin in fear.
I need a damn cuddle and a kiss on the forehead

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Jocasta · 08-27-2007, 08:54 AM

I just spent 2 weeks with my dad (and the rest of my family) and could hardly talk to him. 8 months after my mum died I don't feel any closer to him... at some level I'm angry with him but we've never been close so maybe it's nothing to do with it.

**MissyO** · 08-27-2007, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Jocasta

I just spent 2 weeks with my dad (and the rest of my family) and could hardly talk to him. 8 months after my mum died I don't feel any closer to him... at some level I'm angry with him but we've never been close so maybe it's nothing to do with it.

Man that's sad, Jocasta. Big emotional cuddle and kiss on the forehead going out to you, precious woman.

aloha · 08-27-2007, 09:01 AM

oh that´s really sad kate, I´m sorry.
and Missy I give you the cuddle too

well, i felt similar when all my grandparensts died in one and a half year. first my one grandma died, then my grandpa was alone but coulsn´t live without her and it all went down and he died a few months later (Well, tehy were both over 90) and the year after my other grandma, my godgrandma, also died, and now there isn´t anyone left. My dad now is the oldest in our whole family

**MissyO** · 08-27-2007, 09:04 AM

Awww, that sucks. Cuddles for you Aloha.

aloha · 08-27-2007, 09:15 AM

thanks

yeah, it was really bad, especially because my mom and dad had to do everthing, cause my relative live all in other cities or countries an dcan´t come here every day
and that hit´s your heart a lot when you have to do all that stuff, for the funerla nd so on

and have you ever seen a dead person who´s a relative of you lying in a casket? I did, all that three times (You can go there before the funeral to say goodbye, and that´s hard, but I wanted to pay that last respect to them.

**Ophelia** · 08-27-2007, 10:03 AM

Well, I really needed a cuddle about a month ago, but now I'm a little better. I won't say why, its too personal, but the situation is improving.

Other than the general dis-satisfaction with my career and financial situation I'm decent at the moment.

Cuddles to all of the above. I'm coming back here when I need a hug.

aloha · 08-27-2007, 10:05 AM

okay, do that

**MissyO** · 08-27-2007, 10:14 AM

Awww, Ophelia

. Big love beams and cuddles going out to you. Mostly just on principle. But also because I don't like the thought of you ever having a moment of worry.

HoneyBunny · 08-27-2007, 11:56 AM

I needed a cuddle at the 24th because it´s my dads birthday and we´re not that closed.I haven´t seen him for years.My parents got divorced when I was little and he has a new women and kids and he´s acting like I´m his niece but not his daughter!I called him on the 24th and we talked maybe 5 minutes!

**Ophelia** · 08-27-2007, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by HoneyBunny

I needed a cuddle at the 24th because it´s my dads birthday and we´re not that closed.I haven´t seen him for years.My parents got divorced when I was little and he has a new women and kids and he´s acting like I´m his niece but not his daughter!I called him on the 24th and we talked maybe 5 minutes!

That sucks, I'm sorry. Hugs.

baybee · 08-27-2007, 12:00 PM

BIG cuddle to you Honey Bunny!

Daddies are so important. I'm sorry yours isn't stepping up to the plate to be your Dad.

aloha · 08-27-2007, 12:04 PM

oh that´s sad Honey, Big big cuddle

HoneyBunny · 08-27-2007, 12:12 PM

thanks!
You know it´s okay that he isn´t in my life,I learned to live with it,but sometimes it´s so damn hard!I have 3 half sisters and I don´t even know them really!
But I´m happy that I have a second family.My boyfriend´s family is so cute and nice his mum eves sees me as a daughter!

aloha · 08-27-2007, 12:15 PM

well, that´s good then, but don´t you feel the need to get to know your half sisters? I mean, they share the same blood as you

HoneyBunny · 08-27-2007, 12:23 PM

i want to know them.I really do! I didn´t see the youngest for real only on pics!

aloha · 08-27-2007, 12:30 PM

and is there a chance you can meet them? I mean, do you know how tehy feel about that?

HoneyBunny · 08-27-2007, 12:49 PM

I don´t know I won´t ask my dad,I´m over that but the oldest is 11,so I don´t know if they are thinking of me!

aloha · 08-27-2007, 12:53 PM

oh that´s sad. I hope you get the chance to meet them one day and keep in touch with them I mean they are also a part of you

HoneyBunny · 08-27-2007, 01:02 PM

yeah but I think that´s never happen!I mean that I won´t see them as often as my brothers or that I get that closed to them!

08-27-2007, 08:46 AM	#1 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,047 My Profile	The Tired and Emotional, I Need a Cuddle Thread Like the title said, this is a thread to let it out, tell us what's bugging you and then maybe get an emotional cuddle to cure it. Alright, I'll start: I'm tired, my head is aching, I feel kinda "cold", I'm lonely as hell and every single fricken noise is making me jump out of my skin in fear. I need a damn cuddle and a kiss on the forehead .

08-27-2007, 08:54 AM	#2 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 17,341 My Profile	I just spent 2 weeks with my dad (and the rest of my family) and could hardly talk to him. 8 months after my mum died I don't feel any closer to him... at some level I'm angry with him but we've never been close so maybe it's nothing to do with it.

08-27-2007, 09:01 AM	#4 (permalink)
aloha 30 Days of Josh Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germany Posts: 17,406 My Profile	oh that´s really sad kate, I´m sorry. and Missy I give you the cuddle too well, i felt similar when all my grandparensts died in one and a half year. first my one grandma died, then my grandpa was alone but coulsn´t live without her and it all went down and he died a few months later (Well, tehy were both over 90) and the year after my other grandma, my godgrandma, also died, and now there isn´t anyone left. My dad now is the oldest in our whole family

08-27-2007, 09:04 AM	#5 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,047 My Profile	Awww, that sucks. Cuddles for you Aloha.

08-27-2007, 09:15 AM	#6 (permalink)
aloha 30 Days of Josh Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germany Posts: 17,406 My Profile	thanks yeah, it was really bad, especially because my mom and dad had to do everthing, cause my relative live all in other cities or countries an dcan´t come here every day and that hit´s your heart a lot when you have to do all that stuff, for the funerla nd so on and have you ever seen a dead person who´s a relative of you lying in a casket? I did, all that three times (You can go there before the funeral to say goodbye, and that´s hard, but I wanted to pay that last respect to them.

08-27-2007, 10:03 AM	#7 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 6,893 My Profile	Well, I really needed a cuddle about a month ago, but now I'm a little better. I won't say why, its too personal, but the situation is improving. Other than the general dis-satisfaction with my career and financial situation I'm decent at the moment. Cuddles to all of the above. I'm coming back here when I need a hug.

08-27-2007, 10:05 AM	#8 (permalink)
aloha 30 Days of Josh Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germany Posts: 17,406 My Profile	okay, do that

08-27-2007, 10:14 AM	#9 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,047 My Profile	Awww, Ophelia . Big love beams and cuddles going out to you. Mostly just on principle. But also because I don't like the thought of you ever having a moment of worry.

08-27-2007, 11:56 AM	#10 (permalink)
HoneyBunny Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 746 My Profile	I needed a cuddle at the 24th because it´s my dads birthday and we´re not that closed.I haven´t seen him for years.My parents got divorced when I was little and he has a new women and kids and he´s acting like I´m his niece but not his daughter!I called him on the 24th and we talked maybe 5 minutes!

08-27-2007, 12:00 PM	#12 (permalink)
baybee Sleven Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 684 My Profile	BIG cuddle to you Honey Bunny! Daddies are so important. I'm sorry yours isn't stepping up to the plate to be your Dad.

08-27-2007, 12:04 PM	#13 (permalink)
aloha 30 Days of Josh Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germany Posts: 17,406 My Profile	oh that´s sad Honey, Big big cuddle

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08-27-2007, 12:12 PM	#14 (permalink)
HoneyBunny Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 746 My Profile	thanks! You know it´s okay that he isn´t in my life,I learned to live with it,but sometimes it´s so damn hard!I have 3 half sisters and I don´t even know them really! But I´m happy that I have a second family.My boyfriend´s family is so cute and nice his mum eves sees me as a daughter!

08-27-2007, 12:15 PM	#15 (permalink)
aloha 30 Days of Josh Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germany Posts: 17,406 My Profile	well, that´s good then, but don´t you feel the need to get to know your half sisters? I mean, they share the same blood as you

08-27-2007, 12:23 PM	#16 (permalink)
HoneyBunny Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 746 My Profile	i want to know them.I really do! I didn´t see the youngest for real only on pics!

08-27-2007, 12:30 PM	#17 (permalink)
aloha 30 Days of Josh Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germany Posts: 17,406 My Profile	and is there a chance you can meet them? I mean, do you know how tehy feel about that?

08-27-2007, 12:49 PM	#18 (permalink)
HoneyBunny Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 746 My Profile	I don´t know I won´t ask my dad,I´m over that but the oldest is 11,so I don´t know if they are thinking of me!

08-27-2007, 12:53 PM	#19 (permalink)
aloha 30 Days of Josh Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germany Posts: 17,406 My Profile	oh that´s sad. I hope you get the chance to meet them one day and keep in touch with them I mean they are also a part of you

08-27-2007, 01:02 PM	#20 (permalink)
HoneyBunny Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 746 My Profile	yeah but I think that´s never happen!I mean that I won´t see them as often as my brothers or that I get that closed to them!