The Virginity Thread

**Ophelia** · 08-25-2007, 08:27 AM

So...With a name like this, I dunno know what the hell I'm doing here but - Lets talk about it.

Have you gone the distance? When? Where? Good? Bad? Messy? Can't remember? Regrets? Wish you could request a redo or a larger or smaller penis for the occasion? Can't figure out if you have actually done it or not because you were wasted? Have never come close enough to a penis before so losing your virginity is out of the question?

Rather play with vagina's? BTW, what does constitute when a lesbian "loses" her virginity - oh nevermind, save that for another thread. If you are not giving it up, tell us why. Afraid? waiting for Mr. Right or just waiting? Religious reasons? Gotta be married?

OK. GO! you first.

**MissyO** · 08-25-2007, 08:54 AM

Hmmmmm......... Unfortunately I can't tell this story.......

Blackmask · 08-25-2007, 09:13 AM

Yes, gone the distance on both brands of virginity. No regrets from either.

baybee · 08-25-2007, 09:26 AM

Damn, you sure are delving into folks history with this one, aren't you? Are you going to take this information and use it against folks?? :P

I haven't been a virgin for at least 12 years.

That first time was totally embarrassing. I did it to get it over with. I was 23. We were at his house, but I wasn't drunk but it may have made it more fun if I was!

I thought that if I did it with someone I didn't necessarily care about the love issue wouldn't come into play. I was wrong. Shortly after that I got into a serious, and looking back, f'ed up relationship, and he might as well had been my first because I was all in. We had a kid about 2 years after that.

If I didn't have a kid, I would call myself a born-again virgin. LMAO. I haven't had any for 3 years. I'm cool with it. I don't have time to meet anyone with my ridiculous schedule of classes, work, and mothering. My plate is full and I'd rather sleep than do that any day.

**Ophelia** · 08-25-2007, 09:26 AM

When I was in high school their was more peer pressure to lose it, then there was for drugs and booze.

**Ophelia** · 08-25-2007, 09:29 AM

I did it to get it over with too.

**MissyO** · 08-25-2007, 09:30 AM

^ same here. Gawd. I feel like an absolute tart compared with these people who are like 23 when they lose it. All I'll be saying on the issue was that I was under 17.

baybee · 08-25-2007, 09:30 AM

At my school it was booze and sex, but booze first. I did the booze but I was hell bent on being in a relationship with someone before doing it, needless to say that didn't happen in high school. Going to an all white school and being the only bi-racial person probably didn't help that factor.

**Ophelia** · 08-25-2007, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by MissyO

^ same here. Gawd. I feel like an absolute tart compared with these people who are like 23 when they lose it. All I'll be saying on the issue was that I was under 17.

So was I. There was alot of pressure in my crowd to do it. In hindsight, I wish I would have waited until I actually fell in love.

**Ophelia** · 08-25-2007, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by baybee

Going to an all white school and being the only bi-racial person probably didn't help that factor.

I'm sure that was tough. You shoulda went to my high school, it was muy multi-cultural.

baybee · 08-25-2007, 09:37 AM

I would've loved that. I will make sure my boy gets all kinds of kids in whatever school he goes to.

After I was of age really wanted to drop out. It sucked. I ended up taking my frickin brother to my senior prom, and didn't stay for more than 1/2 hour.

Blackmask · 08-25-2007, 09:54 AM

I was 24 or 25, also wanted to get it over with. Romantic lot aren't we. I wasn't drunk though, it was a guy I worked with and we got on really well. He was in a relationship at the time so no chance of commitment.

Captain Beefheart · 08-25-2007, 12:09 PM

16. I didn't really know what to do, but she helped me through it, and it turned out to be a very safe and fun experience like opening a chain letter from an indian expecting you to donate an organ or attempting to cyber Blackmask on MSN.

It's actually funny because we sort of lost contact after that, and she only lives like 5 minutes away from home. Flash forward 5 years, as it turns out she's now my "faux" psychologist.

**Jocasta** · 08-25-2007, 04:42 PM

24 years ago to the man I later married.

**Ophelia** · 08-25-2007, 05:05 PM

Aww....^ Nice.

I'm still friends with my first. He and I were a terrible couple but we've turned out to be great friends. We phone and email frequently, and I'm good freinds with his wife, Although I suspect he hasn't told her EVERYTHING about our past...

**Jocasta** · 08-25-2007, 06:16 PM

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Although I suspect he hasn't told her EVERYTHING about our past...

Oh, I imagine you're right there!

And while we're here, what are the chances of any woman achieving an orgasm during that very first time?

**Ophelia** · 08-25-2007, 07:41 PM

PHUCK NO!^^^^^

I'm actually glad he hasn't told her, its ancient history. I'd rather be friends with them without her knowing, you know chicks don't deal well with this info.

baybee · 08-25-2007, 08:52 PM

Ha! Good one, Kate.

Blackmask · 08-26-2007, 06:05 AM

I don't see this thread producing the 100s of posts that Men's forum one managed.

**MissyO** · 08-26-2007, 06:17 AM

Nope. Sadly not. Although I am surprised at the average age you guys lost it.
Most of y'all were above 20, where as most people that I've surveyed in real life were around 15 or 16. I guess that's because most of my friends are tarts, though.

08-25-2007, 08:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 6,966 My Profile	The Virginity Thread So...With a name like this, I dunno know what the hell I'm doing here but - Lets talk about it. Have you gone the distance? When? Where? Good? Bad? Messy? Can't remember? Regrets? Wish you could request a redo or a larger or smaller penis for the occasion? Can't figure out if you have actually done it or not because you were wasted? Have never come close enough to a penis before so losing your virginity is out of the question? Rather play with vagina's? BTW, what does constitute when a lesbian "loses" her virginity - oh nevermind, save that for another thread. If you are not giving it up, tell us why. Afraid? waiting for Mr. Right or just waiting? Religious reasons? Gotta be married? OK. GO! you first.

08-25-2007, 09:26 AM	#4 (permalink)
baybee Sleven Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 684 My Profile	Damn, you sure are delving into folks history with this one, aren't you? Are you going to take this information and use it against folks?? :P I haven't been a virgin for at least 12 years. That first time was totally embarrassing. I did it to get it over with. I was 23. We were at his house, but I wasn't drunk but it may have made it more fun if I was! I thought that if I did it with someone I didn't necessarily care about the love issue wouldn't come into play. I was wrong. Shortly after that I got into a serious, and looking back, f'ed up relationship, and he might as well had been my first because I was all in. We had a kid about 2 years after that. If I didn't have a kid, I would call myself a born-again virgin. LMAO. I haven't had any for 3 years. I'm cool with it. I don't have time to meet anyone with my ridiculous schedule of classes, work, and mothering. My plate is full and I'd rather sleep than do that any day. Last edited by baybee : 08-25-2007 at 09:28 AM.

08-25-2007, 08:54 AM	#2 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,104 My Profile	Hmmmmm......... Unfortunately I can't tell this story.......

08-25-2007, 09:13 AM	#3 (permalink)
Blackmask Protector of Inanity Join Date: May 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 6,158 My Profile	Yes, gone the distance on both brands of virginity. No regrets from either.

08-25-2007, 09:26 AM	#5 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 6,966 My Profile	When I was in high school their was more peer pressure to lose it, then there was for drugs and booze.

08-25-2007, 09:29 AM	#6 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 6,966 My Profile	I did it to get it over with too.

08-25-2007, 09:30 AM	#7 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,104 My Profile	^ same here. Gawd. I feel like an absolute tart compared with these people who are like 23 when they lose it. All I'll be saying on the issue was that I was under 17.

08-25-2007, 09:30 AM	#8 (permalink)
baybee Sleven Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 684 My Profile	At my school it was booze and sex, but booze first. I did the booze but I was hell bent on being in a relationship with someone before doing it, needless to say that didn't happen in high school. Going to an all white school and being the only bi-racial person probably didn't help that factor.

08-25-2007, 09:37 AM	#11 (permalink)
baybee Sleven Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 684 My Profile	I would've loved that. I will make sure my boy gets all kinds of kids in whatever school he goes to. After I was of age really wanted to drop out. It sucked. I ended up taking my frickin brother to my senior prom, and didn't stay for more than 1/2 hour.

08-25-2007, 09:54 AM	#12 (permalink)
Blackmask Protector of Inanity Join Date: May 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 6,158 My Profile	I was 24 or 25, also wanted to get it over with. Romantic lot aren't we. I wasn't drunk though, it was a guy I worked with and we got on really well. He was in a relationship at the time so no chance of commitment.

08-25-2007, 12:09 PM	#13 (permalink)
Captain Beefheart Mu nótahu Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: In a West End town, a dead end world Posts: 3,662 My Profile	16. I didn't really know what to do, but she helped me through it, and it turned out to be a very safe and fun experience like opening a chain letter from an indian expecting you to donate an organ or attempting to cyber Blackmask on MSN. It's actually funny because we sort of lost contact after that, and she only lives like 5 minutes away from home. Flash forward 5 years, as it turns out she's now my "faux" psychologist.

08-25-2007, 04:42 PM	#14 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Shaftesbury Avenue Posts: 17,771 My Profile	24 years ago to the man I later married.

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08-25-2007, 05:05 PM	#15 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 6,966 My Profile	Aww....^ Nice. I'm still friends with my first. He and I were a terrible couple but we've turned out to be great friends. We phone and email frequently, and I'm good freinds with his wife, Although I suspect he hasn't told her EVERYTHING about our past...

08-25-2007, 07:41 PM	#17 (permalink)
Ophelia JOHO Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Joshtopia Posts: 6,966 My Profile	PHUCK NO!^^^^^ I'm actually glad he hasn't told her, its ancient history. I'd rather be friends with them without her knowing, you know chicks don't deal well with this info.

08-25-2007, 08:52 PM	#18 (permalink)
baybee Sleven Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 684 My Profile	Ha! Good one, Kate.

08-26-2007, 06:05 AM	#19 (permalink)
Blackmask Protector of Inanity Join Date: May 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 6,158 My Profile	I don't see this thread producing the 100s of posts that Men's forum one managed.

08-26-2007, 06:17 AM	#20 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,104 My Profile	Nope. Sadly not. Although I am surprised at the average age you guys lost it. Most of y'all were above 20, where as most people that I've surveyed in real life were around 15 or 16. I guess that's because most of my friends are tarts, though.