Getting BLOW...

Captain Beefheart · 11-12-2006, 04:38 PM

Am I automatically a bad person because I like to get my **** sucked?

For the most part, women can be hesitant to give oral sex because of the stigma of dominance and subordination involved in that act.

Oral sex has a bad rep, and it doesn't deserve it. The only beef I have with oral sex is that guys often turn it into a control thing, *******s ruin s!hit for the rest of us.

What I meant by this is that we, as men, need to stop making oral sex degrading for women. Because we like to receive it.

See, it just doesn't make sense, it incenses me. I don't understand how it became a "bad" thing to do. It's a wonderful gesture of kindness and compassion and the thought that the actual beneficiaries in the situation would be the detractors is appalling.

There is nothing misogynistic about that, is there?

-Beefheart

**Jocasta** · 11-12-2006, 05:22 PM

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women can be hesitant to give oral sex because of the stigma of dominance and subordination involved in that act.

Position is everything if feeling dominated and subordinate is a problem for her (it's not always a problem, sometimes, far from it)... if the position is right she should feel powerful and in control.
Are you bad for liking a bj? No... just a guy, just normal.

**MissyO** · 11-12-2006, 08:02 PM

I've just got one number for you that can fix your problem with this whole stigma-dominance issue:

69

Either that or, as a dear friend used to say, "don't give him one [an orgasm] until you've had yours!".

EDIT: Just thought of that other great equaliser, the one that has the man either blindfolded or tied up. Then there ain't no doubts about who's the dominant one!

darko. · 11-13-2006, 06:26 PM

hey here's an idea...WHO CARES?!

quit being a *** already, you ***. go chop some wood or do some pushups.

**Plastic Flute** · 11-14-2006, 10:38 PM

^ LMFAO .... Silly Darko
Youre Right Missy.....

Wolf · 11-15-2006, 10:24 AM

Every women should give oral sex to their man; it shouldn't be allowed as mere "choice." Give it, or get out.

**Jocasta** · 11-15-2006, 10:29 AM

Well said Missy, like I mentioned, it's all about the position.

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"don't give him one [an orgasm] until you've had yours!".

I live by that.

Wolf · 11-15-2006, 10:32 AM

Well you shouldn't, that is selfish thinking.

**Jocasta** · 11-15-2006, 10:58 AM

How is it selfish to make giving a bj a pleasurable thing?

SilverSpoon · 11-15-2006, 09:11 PM

Everything is selfish. When people have any kind of sex, it's for themselves.

**Jocasta** · 11-16-2006, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by SilverSpoon

Everything is selfish. When people have any kind of sex, it's for themselves.

If I didn't know you were a young, relatively inexperienced male before, I sure do now. (Only a young, inexperienced male would make a comment like that).

**Frasier** · 11-16-2006, 02:28 PM

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If I didn't know you were a young, relatively inexperienced male before, I sure do now. (Only a young, inexperienced male would make a comment like that).

...are you sure?

**Jocasta** · 11-16-2006, 02:50 PM

Yes. (And remember by young I'm refering to a man's mental age, not his actual age. In other words, an immature older man also counts.)

**Frasier** · 11-16-2006, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Jocasta

Yes. (And remember by young I'm refering to a man's mental age, not his actual age. In other words, an immature older man also counts.)

...mhmmm, okay, that makes sense

SilverSpoon · 11-16-2006, 08:34 PM

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Everything is selfish.

Told ya.

Captain Beefheart · 11-16-2006, 09:39 PM

Personally I don't think that asking a woman to perform oral sex is "degrading". I don't even think that assuming they will is degrading, on the other hand, neglecting their worth based solely on oral sex WOULD BE degrading.

If I am having sexual relations with my girlfriend, then performing oral sex certainly doesn't feel like I'm being humiliated or degraded(from my POV). On the other hand, if it were someone I wasn't really famliar with, we kinda hit it off and then she dropped her drawers and grabbed me by the ears saying "Alright you useless *******, eat my freaking crotch" I'd buy it, but otherwise it's just a sexual act being performed for the purpose of pleasing another phsyically and yourself mentally (and/or emotionally).

**Jocasta** · 11-17-2006, 03:19 AM

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Originally Posted by SilverSpoon

Told ya.

You're wrong.

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Originally Posted by Beefy

Personally I don't think that asking a woman to perform oral sex is "degrading".

Is anyone disagreeing with you? Are you arguing with yourself? Why not respond to the other replies, instead?

Wolf · 11-19-2006, 11:57 AM

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Is anyone disagreeing with you? Are you arguing with yourself? Why not respond to the other replies, instead?

You are a women.

**Jocasta** · 11-19-2006, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Pöstuläte

You are a women.

And you're a moron but I still reply to your comments.

**superboy** · 11-19-2006, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by MissyO

I've just got one number for you that can fix your problem with this whole stigma-dominance issue:

69

Either that or, as a dear friend used to say, "don't give him one [an orgasm] until you've had yours!".

EDIT: Just thought of that other great equaliser, the one that has the man either blindfolded or tied up. Then there ain't no doubts about who's the dominant one!

you tell him, Missy.........lol

11-12-2006, 04:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
Captain Beefheart Mu nótahu Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: In a West End town, a dead end world Posts: 3,675 My Profile	Getting BLOW... Am I automatically a bad person because I like to get my ** sucked? For the most part, women can be hesitant to give oral sex because of the stigma of dominance and subordination involved in that act. Oral sex has a bad rep, and it doesn't deserve it. The only beef I have with oral sex is that guys often turn it into a control thing, ****s ruin s!hit for the rest of us. What I meant by this is that we, as men, need to stop making oral sex degrading for women. Because we like to receive it. See, it just doesn't make sense, it incenses me. I don't understand how it became a "bad" thing to do. It's a wonderful gesture of kindness and compassion and the thought that the actual beneficiaries in the situation would be the detractors is appalling. There is nothing misogynistic about that, is there? -Beefheart Last edited by Captain Beefheart : 11-12-2006 at 04:50 PM.*

11-12-2006, 08:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,111 My Profile	I've just got one number for you that can fix your problem with this whole stigma-dominance issue: 69 Either that or, as a dear friend used to say, "don't give him one [an orgasm] until you've had yours!". EDIT: Just thought of that other great equaliser, the one that has the man either blindfolded or tied up. Then there ain't no doubts about who's the dominant one! Last edited by MissyO : 11-13-2006 at 08:09 AM.

11-15-2006, 10:24 AM	#6 (permalink)
Wolf The Elder Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 4,138 My Profile	Every women should give oral sex to their man; it shouldn't be allowed as mere "choice." Give it, or get out. Last edited by Wolf : 11-15-2006 at 10:25 AM.

11-13-2006, 06:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
darko. Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: shlums 'o shaolin Posts: 2,087	hey here's an idea...WHO CARES?! quit being a * already, you *. go chop some wood or do some pushups.

11-14-2006, 10:38 PM	#5 (permalink)
Plastic Flute ICHiBAN HoOT Join Date: May 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,848 My Profile	^ LMFAO .... Silly Darko Youre Right Missy.....

11-15-2006, 10:32 AM	#8 (permalink)
Wolf The Elder Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 4,138 My Profile	Well you shouldn't, that is selfish thinking.

11-15-2006, 10:58 AM	#9 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Shaftesbury Avenue Posts: 17,805 My Profile	How is it selfish to make giving a bj a pleasurable thing?

11-15-2006, 09:11 PM	#10 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	Everything is selfish. When people have any kind of sex, it's for themselves.

11-16-2006, 02:50 PM	#13 (permalink)
Jocasta Joshtopian Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Shaftesbury Avenue Posts: 17,805 My Profile	Yes. (And remember by young I'm refering to a man's mental age, not his actual age. In other words, an immature older man also counts.)

11-16-2006, 09:39 PM	#16 (permalink)
Captain Beefheart Mu nótahu Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: In a West End town, a dead end world Posts: 3,675 My Profile	Personally I don't think that asking a woman to perform oral sex is "degrading". I don't even think that assuming they will is degrading, on the other hand, neglecting their worth based solely on oral sex WOULD BE degrading. If I am having sexual relations with my girlfriend, then performing oral sex certainly doesn't feel like I'm being humiliated or degraded(from my POV). On the other hand, if it were someone I wasn't really famliar with, we kinda hit it off and then she dropped her drawers and grabbed me by the ears saying "Alright you useless *******, eat my freaking crotch" I'd buy it, but otherwise it's just a sexual act being performed for the purpose of pleasing another phsyically and yourself mentally (and/or emotionally).

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