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09-29-2006, 10:55 PM
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| sla-pus a bit-chus   |  yes, nice guys do finish last. accept it. either that or change it. and by that I dont mean go become a jerk. stop blaming everyone/thing else but yourself, look inside you and see what it is about youd like to change, then do it. youll be surprised at the results. what it boils down to is: be yourself. yeah were just going around in circles here, so lets cut the crap. Last edited by Dark Dude; 09-29-2006 at 10:58 PM.. |
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09-30-2006, 04:24 AM
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| Heartless Bastard  | Most women are attracted to powerful guys who are extremely self-confident. There is a fine line between being a self-confident, powerful guy and a total jerk, because being very self-confident can often mean disregarding the feelings of others, including your lady friend. This is no one's fault, it's the way we're programmed. The real question is, at which Dark Dude has hinted, is this: Are you prepared to change your character, to pretend to be a jerk, in order to secure the affections of the kind of girl who would find jerks attractive? |
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10-01-2006, 02:26 AM
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| Ya Rly!  | Quote:
Yes, Nice Guys do finish last. You can do one of three things. 1. Accept the way it is and remain the Nice Guy, and be single most of your young life until the women in your age range grows up and wants kids and a mortgage. All this is after she's been around the block and the football team retires her jersey. 2. Remain the Nice Guy and keep looking for a Nice Girl who appreciates it now. You have better odds of winning the lottery the day you're stuck by lightning, but to each his own. At least you won't have the baggage of #1. 3. Do what the Jerks do, since it works. Have fun, then find a nice girl to settle down with. Most girls seem to be more lenient toward guys sleeping around than the reverse. Maybe they expect it? Who knows. | |
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10-01-2006, 12:53 PM
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10-02-2006, 02:35 PM
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| Mu nótahu  | Quote:
 No offense but you don't seem to get it, listen to some of the other girls that posted. When you can open your eyes and see that there is more to relationships than being nice, then you will have taken a giant leap forward. You might even get on the road that shows you that your previous behaviors that you used to think were soooooooo perfect and desirable areactually a huge turnoff. The majority of females in the 16/24 age column are straight up scandalous. They feed off drama and in most situations consciously create it if it doesn't exist. TRUE. Most people that are saying that women really like *******s are talking about young highschool/college-aged women. We see a lot less instances of guys complaining about women doing this at 35. Sure, it may happen, but not to the extent that it happens with young women. They are more likely to grow out of the insistance upon alpha males as they age, but not all do. I know some women in their late 20's who still insist on dating ignorant, violent, insecure men, because they imagine there's only one way to be a real man, and that respect is earned through force and intimidation. PS-Green Day SUCKS. Last edited by Captain Beefheart; 10-02-2006 at 03:37 PM.. | |
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10-15-2006, 05:34 PM
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| Ya Rly! | Beefheart's right. There's good and bad news along with that, though. The good news is, you'll have lots of women after you when you're in your late 20's-early 30's. The bad news is most of those women will be used-up ho bags who insisted on "alpha males" in their youth and now want a nice guy to finance their motherhood. The other good news: Society doesn't look down on men in their 30's who haven't married yet. So use your new options to have the fun you're missing now. If you're just married at 40 or so, who cares? You're a man, you can do whatever you want. |
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11-12-2006, 02:38 PM
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| Mu nótahu | Please be familiar with the slogan, "if you accept me as a part of your treehouse, I don't want to join anymore." Games, games, games. *******s and ****!heads aren't what a girl wants. Good guys don't always lose. The good guys are just too damn scared of risking rep and approaching a girl on some real s!hit. *******s have no problem approaching. That's why it appears like they constantly succeed. It's not that, it's more they just have better success due to frequency. That said, the only ones girls have to choose from is *******s ans ****!heads. Good guys should grow some freaking balls and approach whomever they want to speak with. Because one thing is definitely for sure: if you're an average looking dude and you play the wall all night, forget about it. You'll get nowhere. You might as well stop at Blockbuster on the way back home. I'd suggest Good Will Hunting. You know, the one that further promotes fantasies that don't come true at the end of the night. You know, the one where the hot chick with the british accent comes up to you, calls you silly for not talking to her, and then gives you her number. RIIIIIIIIGGGGGGHHHHHHTTT! By the way, I don't mean to suggest that all girls in the 18-24 range are wack, although a huge percentage of the attractive ones definitely are. Now, I know I'm using the noun "girls" pretty all-encompassingly and am being significantly misogynistic (which I apologize for but can't deny), but I do recognize there are exceptions (though I suspect I'll find mint doubles of the "Bumpin' Bust Stops" 45 before I find a genuinely down-to-earth, nice girl who is down with me EHH!). In fact, I'm pretty sure this whole "good guys lose" thing is an American phenomenon. |
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