Why don't Girls ask out Guy's ?

edawg99 · 08-11-2006, 03:42 PM

I can't figure it out. Us guy's have ask them out all the time. Wouldn't be nice for a girl to ask us out. It would be a lot easier if they came up to me and asked me. Why do we have to do all the work ? Woman want to be more independant nowadays but they are still old fashioned when it comes to dating always having the guy's go threw the nervousness of if where going to get rejected or not.

darko. · 08-11-2006, 03:58 PM

because they shouldnt have to and they dont want a WHIMPY WHINEY BABY who doent even have enough guts to ask them out. "well you see kids,your father is a p*ssy so i had to ask that coward out. and now hes still a coward. i should have known then!"

be a man.

women dont want to be independant. thats a lie. stop believing it. if you encounter a wmoan who still lies to you and herself and pretends she does, leave immediately.

**Gumby** · 08-11-2006, 04:14 PM

They don't ask guys out simply because they don't have to. Your average girl still gets hit on WAY more often than your average guy, so the odds work in their favor for the majority of their lives.

SilverSpoon · 08-11-2006, 04:25 PM

My theory is they don't ask out guys they don't like. You're probably just not likeable if they don't ask you out.

JenniferNoble · 08-11-2006, 04:47 PM

wow.. i agree with darko. hes right

besides another explaination is that we are more subtile. if a guy you absolutely despise asks you out, you turn him down nicely, with a smile or something or make up and excuse why you cant come. guys are rude. if an unattractive woman walks up to them or just someone they dont like they make fun of her. i asked a guy out. he turned me down the hard way. i dont ever want that to happen again so i prefer to be hit on.

SilverSpoon · 08-11-2006, 05:24 PM

You shouldn't bother people who don't want to be bothered.

JenniferNoble · 08-11-2006, 06:17 PM

sometimes i could just...kick you

SilverSpoon · 08-11-2006, 06:30 PM

Bring it on. I'll get the boom box.

08-11-2006, 06:40 PM

A guy's* what? What? What?

*See what I did there. He used an apostrophe, which is possesive, and so on.

solo1 · 08-11-2006, 06:45 PM

Guys are ugly and pointy. Girls are pretty and soft. Everything else is details.

08-11-2006, 07:42 PM

well me personally i like the old fashion way...

**Gumby** · 08-12-2006, 02:24 AM

Personally, I'm more results-oriented, so as long as the goal is achieved, I couldn't care less how it happens.

If I ask, fine. If she asks, great. As long as one of us says "yes"

SilverSpoon · 08-12-2006, 10:26 AM

Everyone is just too damn lazy now.

Nathan8 · 08-12-2006, 04:27 PM

Wasn't that stupid book "He's Just Not That Into You" popular for a little bit? That was telling girls not to approach guys at all because if guys don't approach you, that means "he's just not that into you," which is a complete load of bullshit since now shy guys like me are getting screwed over.

JenniferNoble · 08-12-2006, 07:58 PM

theres also a book called why men lie and women buy so many shoes.

edawg99 · 08-12-2006, 11:53 PM

Man all this dating and relationship stuff is so complicated.

**open32** · 08-25-2006, 02:50 PM

^ya I hate it.

Both of my 2 sisters have no problem asking a guy out. Thell pass a note of a number so something.

08-27-2006, 09:54 PM

this might be the only thread in the history of fanhost where i agree with both Darko and Jennifernoble at the same time.

08-11-2006, 03:42 PM	#1 (permalink)
edawg99 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 8,395 My Profile	Why don't Girls ask out Guy's ? I can't figure it out. Us guy's have ask them out all the time. Wouldn't be nice for a girl to ask us out. It would be a lot easier if they came up to me and asked me. Why do we have to do all the work ? Woman want to be more independant nowadays but they are still old fashioned when it comes to dating always having the guy's go threw the nervousness of if where going to get rejected or not.

08-11-2006, 03:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
darko. Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: shlums 'o shaolin Posts: 2,087	because they shouldnt have to and they dont want a WHIMPY WHINEY BABY who doent even have enough guts to ask them out. "well you see kids,your father is a pssy so i had to ask that coward out. and now hes still a coward. i should have known then!" be a man. women dont want to be independant. thats a lie. stop believing it. if you encounter a wmoan who still lies to you and herself and pretends she does, leave immediately. Last edited by darko. : 08-11-2006 at 03:59 PM.*

08-11-2006, 04:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
Gumby Ya Rly! Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 943 My Profile	They don't ask guys out simply because they don't have to. Your average girl still gets hit on WAY more often than your average guy, so the odds work in their favor for the majority of their lives.

08-11-2006, 04:25 PM	#4 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	My theory is they don't ask out guys they don't like. You're probably just not likeable if they don't ask you out.

08-11-2006, 04:47 PM	#5 (permalink)
JenniferNoble Lovely Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 4,623 My Profile	wow.. i agree with darko. hes right besides another explaination is that we are more subtile. if a guy you absolutely despise asks you out, you turn him down nicely, with a smile or something or make up and excuse why you cant come. guys are rude. if an unattractive woman walks up to them or just someone they dont like they make fun of her. i asked a guy out. he turned me down the hard way. i dont ever want that to happen again so i prefer to be hit on.

08-11-2006, 05:24 PM	#6 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	You shouldn't bother people who don't want to be bothered.

08-11-2006, 06:17 PM	#7 (permalink)
JenniferNoble Lovely Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 4,623 My Profile	sometimes i could just...kick you

08-11-2006, 06:30 PM	#8 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	Bring it on. I'll get the boom box.

08-11-2006, 06:40 PM	#9 (permalink)
Stratus Posts: n/a	A guy's* what? What? What? *See what I did there. He used an apostrophe, which is possesive, and so on.

08-11-2006, 06:45 PM	#10 (permalink)
solo1 Heartless Bastard Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Ireland Posts: 3,351 My Profile	Guys are ugly and pointy. Girls are pretty and soft. Everything else is details.

08-11-2006, 07:42 PM	#11 (permalink)
PW&JRMS_fan Posts: n/a	well me personally i like the old fashion way...

08-12-2006, 02:24 AM	#12 (permalink)
Gumby Ya Rly! Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 943 My Profile	Personally, I'm more results-oriented, so as long as the goal is achieved, I couldn't care less how it happens. If I ask, fine. If she asks, great. As long as one of us says "yes"

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08-12-2006, 10:26 AM	#13 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	Everyone is just too damn lazy now.

08-12-2006, 04:27 PM	#14 (permalink)
Nathan8 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Bellevue, Washington Posts: 268 My Profile	Wasn't that stupid book "He's Just Not That Into You" popular for a little bit? That was telling girls not to approach guys at all because if guys don't approach you, that means "he's just not that into you," which is a complete load of bullshit since now shy guys like me are getting screwed over.

08-12-2006, 07:58 PM	#15 (permalink)
JenniferNoble Lovely Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 4,623 My Profile	theres also a book called why men lie and women buy so many shoes.

08-12-2006, 11:53 PM	#16 (permalink)
edawg99 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 8,395 My Profile	Man all this dating and relationship stuff is so complicated.

08-25-2006, 02:50 PM	#17 (permalink)
open32 Administrator Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 7,571 My Profile	^ya I hate it. Both of my 2 sisters have no problem asking a guy out. Thell pass a note of a number so something.

08-27-2006, 09:54 PM	#18 (permalink)
He's a mentalist Posts: n/a	this might be the only thread in the history of fanhost where i agree with both Darko and Jennifernoble at the same time.