This girl at work

solid snake · 07-09-2006, 06:10 PM

There's this girl at the hospital that works up in the cafeteria and I've noticed lately I seem to catch her attention when I go up there. I didn't really think too much of it at first since I have a gf, but then one day while she was waiting on some customers I went to another register, I looked over at her and she smiled and waved at me, so naturally I smiled and waved back. She's waved at me several times, like when she's on a break and sitting down at a table, I'll be at a register buying breakfest or a snack on my afternoon break and she'll we'll maek eye contact and she'll smile and wave at me and I retunr the gesture. I've now found myself going to her register much more often and I seem to be getting a crush on her. We don't know much about each other, we're both involved, she does have a bf, not sure how long she's been involved or if they live together. She does know my brother who works downstairs in the kitchen, that's how I was introduced to her, one of the other cashiers told her who I was. It was after that day that I really started to notice her and noticed that she would look my way when I was up there.

I've been trying to figure out if she's interested in me since she initiated the smiling and waving thing or if it's just nothing at all.

any ideas boys...and girls who are lurking in here

SilverSpoon · 07-09-2006, 06:25 PM

Well, she definitely likes you, but whether that's romantic interest or not is hard to tell since she has a boyfriend already. Get to know her, see if she seems like the type who would do the dirty dance with more than one guy.

Or maybe she's just one of those overly nice people. You know the type. You say hi once, and then every time after that it's as if you're the best of friends but haven't seen each other in years.

edawg99 · 07-09-2006, 06:30 PM

That's a diffficult situation. A lot of girls look at guy's and give you a nice smile. I would just play it cool and see if she tries to make more of an attempt to get to know you.

darko. · 07-09-2006, 08:10 PM

confess your undying love

SilverSpoon · 07-09-2006, 08:22 PM

Hold on...why would you care if she was interested in you unless you were interested in her? You have a girlfriend, so you should be devoted to her instead of thinking about what other chicks are thinking about you. Let her play her little game. If she doesn't make it clear that she's into you, then don't worry about it.

solid snake · 07-09-2006, 08:46 PM

Well I admit, I have some interest in her. I dunno, I can't seem to help it. My gf and I have had our share of bad moments, there are things about this other girl that I like. it should be easier to figure out signals and intentions.

SilverSpoon · 07-09-2006, 10:20 PM

It's never easy. Women are very erratic. And erotic. Mmmmmmmmmm.

**MissyO** · 07-10-2006, 12:20 AM

I'm thinking she's either just being friendly or she's a flirt. Smiles, waves and eye contact might not mean that much to her if she's naturally outgoing. Take it with a grain of salt unless she actually hits on you.

**Gumby** · 07-10-2006, 01:33 AM

Smiles, eye contact, and waving don't really mean that much. Lots of girls do that just to be friendly or flirty.

Personally, I wouldn't read too much into it.

07-10-2006, 01:48 AM

yea shes probally being friendly seeing as how she knows your brother but who knows we could be wrong

darko. · 07-10-2006, 03:10 AM

walk up to her from behind and shove your index finger down her crack. then smell it. then make her smell it. if she smiles, she's yours forever.

07-10-2006, 03:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by darko.

walk up to her from behind and shove your index finger down her crack. then smell it. then make her smell it. if she smiles, she's yours forever.

i just threw up in my mouth.... :X

yea...i wouldn't look into it much.... but i would go up to her and say hi...maybe she's just looking for a friend in the workplace...and this is good cause then if your ever bored...you guys can just talk

07-10-2006, 12:44 PM

This might be controversial, but I think smiling, waving and eye contact don't mean that much- she may just be naturally outgoing, flirty even, and is just being friendly.

JenniferNoble · 07-10-2006, 03:02 PM

uhoh. this is bad news. i also smile and wave at alot of people :uhoh:

solo1 · 07-10-2006, 05:19 PM

You never smile and wave at me!

Nathan8 · 07-10-2006, 08:20 PM

Well, since you don't really know her, how many things can there be that you like about her? I think she somehow knows your girlfriend and they are laying a trap to see if you would go for her. Anyway, I don't think it's a good idea to get involved with someone when you and her are already involved with someone else. If she were single and you wanted to break up with your girlfriend before meeting this girl, then I would say go for it. But I think it's just the hormones and her flirting that make you want to go for her. Just think, if she flirts with you when she already has a boyfriend, then she would probably do that when she's going out with you too. That is if she is actually flirting and not just being nice. Girls are weird with their flirting and being nice.

07-11-2006, 07:28 AM

I wouldn't even get involved with someone at the workplace.

Just be her friend.

We all have this thing about wondering "what if" or some sort of comparison to what we have now. But that's selfish. Appreciate that you have someone in your life and bring the focus you have on this girl to your actual relationship and try to make that work as best as possible.

solid snake · 07-11-2006, 09:29 PM

why be flirty when in a relationship? why screw with another person like that?

solo1 · 07-12-2006, 03:48 AM

How do you think people ever change relationships?

07-12-2006, 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by darko.

confess your undying love

+1

07-09-2006, 06:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
solid snake Stonecutter Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: 742 Evergreen Terrace Posts: 3,836 My Profile	This girl at work There's this girl at the hospital that works up in the cafeteria and I've noticed lately I seem to catch her attention when I go up there. I didn't really think too much of it at first since I have a gf, but then one day while she was waiting on some customers I went to another register, I looked over at her and she smiled and waved at me, so naturally I smiled and waved back. She's waved at me several times, like when she's on a break and sitting down at a table, I'll be at a register buying breakfest or a snack on my afternoon break and she'll we'll maek eye contact and she'll smile and wave at me and I retunr the gesture. I've now found myself going to her register much more often and I seem to be getting a crush on her. We don't know much about each other, we're both involved, she does have a bf, not sure how long she's been involved or if they live together. She does know my brother who works downstairs in the kitchen, that's how I was introduced to her, one of the other cashiers told her who I was. It was after that day that I really started to notice her and noticed that she would look my way when I was up there. I've been trying to figure out if she's interested in me since she initiated the smiling and waving thing or if it's just nothing at all. any ideas boys...and girls who are lurking in here

07-09-2006, 06:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	Well, she definitely likes you, but whether that's romantic interest or not is hard to tell since she has a boyfriend already. Get to know her, see if she seems like the type who would do the dirty dance with more than one guy. Or maybe she's just one of those overly nice people. You know the type. You say hi once, and then every time after that it's as if you're the best of friends but haven't seen each other in years.

07-09-2006, 06:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
edawg99 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 8,395 My Profile	That's a diffficult situation. A lot of girls look at guy's and give you a nice smile. I would just play it cool and see if she tries to make more of an attempt to get to know you.

07-09-2006, 08:10 PM	#4 (permalink)
darko. Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: shlums 'o shaolin Posts: 2,087	confess your undying love

07-09-2006, 08:22 PM	#5 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	Hold on...why would you care if she was interested in you unless you were interested in her? You have a girlfriend, so you should be devoted to her instead of thinking about what other chicks are thinking about you. Let her play her little game. If she doesn't make it clear that she's into you, then don't worry about it.

07-09-2006, 08:46 PM	#6 (permalink)
solid snake Stonecutter Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: 742 Evergreen Terrace Posts: 3,836 My Profile	Well I admit, I have some interest in her. I dunno, I can't seem to help it. My gf and I have had our share of bad moments, there are things about this other girl that I like. it should be easier to figure out signals and intentions.

07-09-2006, 10:20 PM	#7 (permalink)
SilverSpoon Kamen Rider Kiva Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.canofnothing.com Posts: 7,526	It's never easy. Women are very erratic. And erotic. Mmmmmmmmmm.

07-10-2006, 12:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
MissyO Perennially Disgruntled Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 4,113 My Profile	I'm thinking she's either just being friendly or she's a flirt. Smiles, waves and eye contact might not mean that much to her if she's naturally outgoing. Take it with a grain of salt unless she actually hits on you.

07-10-2006, 01:33 AM	#9 (permalink)
Gumby Ya Rly! Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 943 My Profile	Smiles, eye contact, and waving don't really mean that much. Lots of girls do that just to be friendly or flirty. Personally, I wouldn't read too much into it.

07-10-2006, 01:48 AM	#10 (permalink)
etherealX Posts: n/a	yea shes probally being friendly seeing as how she knows your brother but who knows we could be wrong

07-10-2006, 03:10 AM	#11 (permalink)
darko. Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: shlums 'o shaolin Posts: 2,087	walk up to her from behind and shove your index finger down her crack. then smell it. then make her smell it. if she smiles, she's yours forever.

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07-10-2006, 12:44 PM	#13 (permalink)
He's a mentalist Posts: n/a	This might be controversial, but I think smiling, waving and eye contact don't mean that much- she may just be naturally outgoing, flirty even, and is just being friendly.

07-10-2006, 03:02 PM	#14 (permalink)
JenniferNoble Lovely Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 4,623 My Profile	uhoh. this is bad news. i also smile and wave at alot of people :uhoh:

07-10-2006, 05:19 PM	#15 (permalink)
solo1 Heartless Bastard Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Ireland Posts: 3,351 My Profile	You never smile and wave at me!

07-10-2006, 08:20 PM	#16 (permalink)
Nathan8 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Bellevue, Washington Posts: 268 My Profile	Well, since you don't really know her, how many things can there be that you like about her? I think she somehow knows your girlfriend and they are laying a trap to see if you would go for her. Anyway, I don't think it's a good idea to get involved with someone when you and her are already involved with someone else. If she were single and you wanted to break up with your girlfriend before meeting this girl, then I would say go for it. But I think it's just the hormones and her flirting that make you want to go for her. Just think, if she flirts with you when she already has a boyfriend, then she would probably do that when she's going out with you too. That is if she is actually flirting and not just being nice. Girls are weird with their flirting and being nice.

07-11-2006, 07:28 AM	#17 (permalink)
Midnight Posts: n/a	I wouldn't even get involved with someone at the workplace. Just be her friend. We all have this thing about wondering "what if" or some sort of comparison to what we have now. But that's selfish. Appreciate that you have someone in your life and bring the focus you have on this girl to your actual relationship and try to make that work as best as possible.

07-11-2006, 09:29 PM	#18 (permalink)
solid snake Stonecutter Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: 742 Evergreen Terrace Posts: 3,836 My Profile	why be flirty when in a relationship? why screw with another person like that?

07-12-2006, 03:48 AM	#19 (permalink)
solo1 Heartless Bastard Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Ireland Posts: 3,351 My Profile	How do you think people ever change relationships?