Damn, you sure are delving into folks history with this one, aren't you? Are you going to take this information and use it against folks?? :P
I haven't been a virgin for at least 12 years.
That first time was totally embarrassing. I did it to get it over with. I was 23. We were at his house, but I wasn't drunk but it may have made it more fun if I was!
I thought that if I did it with someone I didn't necessarily care about the love issue wouldn't come into play. I was wrong. Shortly after that I got into a serious, and looking back, f'ed up relationship, and he might as well had been my first because I was all in. We had a kid about 2 years after that.
If I didn't have a kid, I would call myself a born-again virgin. LMAO. I haven't had any for 3 years. I'm cool with it. I don't have time to meet anyone with my ridiculous schedule of classes, work, and mothering. My plate is full and I'd rather sleep than do that any day.
