Feel the need to have a mate - why close the first thread Oh come on. One time I make an OT post and you close the thread. That I diverge only shows that I associate, which again means that I think ...I guess.
To answer the question, if I feel the need to have a mate. I say yes - not now necessarily. Do you need someone who could patch up your weaknesses? Yes and no. Actually I find people with too few weaknesses and people that beat me in a lot of ways to be very intimating. So when looking for a partner I don't scan girls for the absence of my weaknesses. I go by overall likelyness, the looks (cuteness) and even sort out the ones that are too perfect. Of course that makes approaches even harder. You can't tell a girl you choose her for inner beauty or even worse inner cuteness, as it sounds like want to say something different, something negative instead. |