Am I automatically a bad person because I like to get my **** sucked?
For the most part, women can be hesitant to give oral sex because of the stigma of dominance and subordination involved in that act.
Oral sex has a bad rep, and it doesn't deserve it. The only beef I have with oral sex is that guys often turn it into a control thing, *******s ruin s!hit for the rest of us.
What I meant by this is that we, as men, need to stop making oral sex degrading for women. Because we like to receive it.
See, it just doesn't make sense, it incenses me. I don't understand how it became a "bad" thing to do. It's a wonderful gesture of kindness and compassion and the thought that the actual beneficiaries in the situation would be the detractors is appalling.
There is nothing misogynistic about that, is there?
-Beefheart
