Most women are attracted to powerful guys who are extremely self-confident. There is a fine line between being a self-confident, powerful guy and a total jerk, because being very self-confident can often mean disregarding the feelings of others, including your lady friend.
This is no one's fault, it's the way we're programmed.
The real question is, at which Dark Dude has hinted, is this: Are you prepared to change your character, to pretend to be a jerk, in order to secure the affections of the kind of girl who would find jerks attractive? |